Divorce hurts and the PAIN of it can take its toll on your emotional, mental, and physical health. How you deal with the dissolution of your marriage can determine how soon, and in what condition, you emerge and get to the next phase -- Hope and Healing. Read how I went from Phase I - Despair to Phase II - Hope. Don't allow the process or the stigma of divorce define you Through this journey, I found 100 reasons why I filed for divorce but, more importantly, 101 reasons why I'm GLAD I did