This book was written to encourage men to honor themselves for who they are and for the world to recognize the king with in. Valencia is determined to clear and rid the negatively charged atmosphere between male and female. Her passion is to encourage every male/man that has been defeated, hindered, side tracked, used, misused, and abused. Her quotes will serve as a "Lifejacket" for men who have felt as though they were drowning in life's woes.