50 Ways to Create True Connection 50 Ways to Create Great Relationships is full of practical advice for developing deeper and more satisfying relationships. Chandler offers a fresh approach to relationship building where we are encouraged to overcome robotic, passive thinking and create a more active, optimistic self-image. Healthy, productive new relationships evolve naturally as we learn to listen to and value those around us. We can learn to "Think and Thank" in our personal and professional lives and grow beyond negative perceptions and harmful unresolved conflicts.