What is notable about your book is that it is consistently Bible-based in addition to using good techniques. Some very excellent items I really liked were: "Knowing when the wife needs his ear or a shoulder, and not just an answer." "A wife must understand her husband's need for respect." "Never discipline your children in anger." The pertinent summaries of what the Old Testament, Jesus, and the New Testament say about marriage are most helpful and relevant. Their insistence on repentance and ultimate freedom from addiction rather than condemnation. The section on steps to take during conflict resolution is significantly practical. They invoke forgiveness and immediate refusal to be offended. Cal Easterling, Ph.D.Professor of Sociology, Criminal Justice AdvisorOral Roberts University Carl and Charity have been married for over 35 years, they have three children and soon to be nine grandchildren. They have been actively involved in ministry for over 40 years and served Associate Pastors, in New York; and later as Pre-marital and Marital Counselors, at Victory Christian Center in Tulsa, OK.Carl has several years of theology training including Deliverance Bible Institute of Newark, New Jersey, Rhema Correspondence School and Victory Bible College in Tulsa, OK. Carl and Charity are authors of the book Before & After, published by Harrison House Publishing in 2014. They currently provide pre-marital and marriage counseling under their own ministry, Higher Life Outreach Ministries, have a weekly T.V. Broadcast on the Christian Television Network in Tulsa, on local channel 47, and on their YouTube channel "Living The Higher Life".