Are you the recipient of shame and blame or the perpetrator of it? Would you like America to be less divided? If so, this is the book for you. A divided nation and shaming and blaming individuals can eventually destroy themselves. President Lincoln is often quoted as having said, "Together we stand. Divided we fall." The United States of America are no longer united. The situation is reaching a crisis point. People are losing faith in themselves and their government to deal with these divides. The upcoming 2020 election will likely probably bring out the competitive, divisive rhetoric from all sides. How will we all deal with this? All the black-and-white, good/bad thinking is exhausting on all sides of the various conflicts. A retired psychologist, not a politician, Dr. Lindeman believes we can all benefit from an alternative, holistic thinking. This small book can alter the way you approach any potential conflict.