A divorce is a long, often complicated process that takes a lot time to unfold. During that time, a man is left with a seemingly endless supply of time to reflect and contemplate life. This was certainly the case for me. I spent many a lonely, melancholy night thinking about the course that my life had taken up to that point. Fears can easily creep in in a situation like that and one of the biggest, most persistent fears was how I was going to ever find someone special again. It was weird really. At the time, my feelings were all a jumble. I still had feelings for my soon to be ex-wife, yet I had little hope that we would be able to fix things, and I was already thinking about moving on. We were still married and life was - complicated, to say the least. Yet, a man could hardly be faulted for wanting some female companionship at that point. Well, I didn't start dating at that point (we will talk more about that later) and I finished up my divorce in a nice, tidy, and yes, honorable way. That was important to me. However, I have certainly not been a monk since the day the divorce decree was final. I have dated, escorted and courted and I owe no one any explanations or apologies. Yes, my friend, you can too I am going to tell you what you need to know. I have always been a bit of a bookworm. I look for the answers to life in books and have always been happy to do so. However, when my divorce started, I came up empty. Of course, there are books on divorce, but none of them fit me just right. So, I started writing this series. The first volume, A Man's Guide To Surviving Divorce: How To Cope & Move On With Life (ISBN 978-1463777326 ), is all about how to get through the crisis that is a divorce. This book, on the other hand, is about how to put all that behind you and find the next Mrs. Right or even Ms. Right Now (I am not here to judge). I based this work on my own experiences with the ladies. Along the way, I have had many adventures, a lot of fun, and I have made some mistakes. I will talk about all of this in the pages that follow as this book teaches you what you need to know to start dating again.