Many people in the world today are living their lives with the pain of past events or tragedies they have experienced. No where is this more evident than with the combat veterans. Though their physical injuries can be healed, what they brought home with them in their heart and mind will sometimes never heal. Their war is still as real today as it was then. Unlike the combat veteran, your hurts and wounds may not have come from a foreign battlefield but from your own life experiences. Here, I share with you what I found in Vietnam and how I have learned to be a "Grace Giver." Out of the hurt and the burdens of this life, God wants to give you a brand new lifestyle, the lifestyle of grace. Steve and Kathy Kennard have been married for thirty-two years and currently living in Spring, Texas. Together they have three daughters Leah, Kari and Stephanie and two wonderful grandchildren Aliyah and Aeden.