This book isn't about the steps you need to take to love better. It's more about the steps you can't take. Just like the Ten Commandments were never the way to create the perfect person but to show our need for God, so is Love. It's the greatest commandment, to love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind and the second, to love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:37-39). This comes from the mouth of Jesus. God knew that no matter how hard we try to love; we fail. That failure is meant to lead us to Him. It is meant, just like the Ten Commandments, to bring us to His feet and the end of ourselves. So this book on love is about how we can't love, and how He can. It is meant to show us the truth that with God all things are possible (Matthew 19:26).