This book provides the dynamics as to why sexually traumatized women are highly attracted and can become addicted to men who abuse them verbally and/or physically. The societal teachings and physical factors set the woman up. Only when a woman learns the correct information can she be set free and heal. She no longer has the attraction to men who will harm her and has a renewed sense of living. The new understanding and concepts addressed in this book make a major difference in the choices a woman makes in a male friendship or lifetime mate. Connecting the "myth" and "secret" enhances the lives of women and men and creates a lasting and creative relationship. The revelation of this truth produces a healthy friendship that is freed from the society's mistaken beliefs and traps. It produces freedom from emotional bondage and truly creates a new and refreshing life! In addiiton, the concepts, which seem simple in explanation, yet are complex in their totality, will help individuals to begin exploring a wonderful and enriched life for themselves.