When the unthinkable happens...how will we survive? Surviving the loss of a child is the hardest of journeys. There is only one way and that is through. But what does that even mean? "I can only show and tell you about my experiences along the way, pointing out mistakes, dangers, and miracles." -Cheryl Christopher A portrait of Grief was written to hold the reader's hand through the early stages of grief and to provide guidance for sustained healing into the future. Cheryl Christopher writes from personal experience of losing three boys. Although child loss is the primary subject, this book is impactful to those who have endured loss of any kind. In concise chapters, fellow grievers are pointed toward hope and renewal through personal stories, teachings, and music selections for healing. The book is structured to walk you through:The crippling effects of catastrophic loss The process of grief and mourning Denial and Avoidance The weight of words and the hardest question The worst that stages have to offer Fear Guilt and grace Learning to receive comfort Loss of identity Self-Care Signs and Epiphanies: everyday miracles Marriage amid misery Suicide, the Ultimate Tragedy Complicated Grief Celebrating those lost too soon Managing special days and holidays Shaping our worries into prayers The impossible promises of Romans 8:28 When to let the joy back in: let's dance Lift up your eyes