A Way To Love - Laugh is a series of stories about a flawed older man with prescience, filled with dichotomies, seeking a lifetime love and companion. The personal narratives are infused with wisdom and humor gleaned over a lifetime of searching for a loving woman. Mike's philosophy is that, "Anything worth doing is worth overdoing." "Do anything you want, with style, as long as you don't hurt anyone," and that, "Life is too important to be taken seriously, so a sense of humor is the most important aspect of any successful loving relationship." These accounts also read as "recipes" to find a true love by demonstrating what to do and what not to do when interacting with your perspective love partner. There are also many interesting examples of the way a culture thinks about itself and suggests solutions for some of the problems that shape these transitional times. The book is sprinkled with Zen philosophy, novel short stories, strong viewpoints, jokes, parables, anecdotes, personal encounters, entertaining Emails, dates, expressions, and a varied cornucopia of loving lessons to be learned. There is little competition in the book market for A Way To Love - Laugh because the book is a manual on how to find more essence in your existence through emotional expression and humor.