What is, Abuse is not Gods Plan? As well as, What is The Code of Silence? Well, for the most part, both of these are like either brothers, or a brother and sister. I know that it is hard for you, meaning, someone that has never dealt with or had to deal with issues of violence in your life, or home, or in your surroundings, you will find this, unpleasant, as well as, unbelievable. There is a spirit of bondage that goes out amongst us, and that spirit is there to cast dismay on the lives of those that mean well, and want to have a great life.What this means is, say you have a child, and that child is outside playing, and someone drives by a shoots that child dead, right in front of you, the dismay is not on the child, but to you, the one that witnessed the act. abuse is described in many different ways, but if the truth be told, abuse is the simple misunderstanding of the correct purpose of a person, place, or thing. The Code of Silence is basically the act of staying silent to not bring alarm to the notions of those around us, you've heard the old saying that we should not rock the boat, well, if your life depends on you rocking the boat, you better be rocking it as hard as you can.The thing that many to most people miss about abusers is this, most of them are simply longing for attention that they didn't get as they grew up, now they are going about it, the wrong way. Yes, I have been abused in many different ways, spousal abuse, spiritual abuse, sexual abuse, physical and verbal abuse. none of it is pleasant, none of it is good for the soul, but the strong, get to live through it, while all the rest, never get over it.Many times, abusive situations are there to carve us into becoming stronger than we think we are, the scriptures does say, that God will not allow you to be tempted more than you can handle, what it does not say is this, where the Lord gives us a way out, if we don't take it, then the abuse that comes after that, is there to tear us apart.There is nothing good about abuse, and most suicides happen, because there has not been an encounter with a truthful friend or family member that gave them a desire to want to live. I tried in my life to commit suicide 15 times, and God said no, each and every single time, I have had three near death experiences, and God said, not yet, each and every single time. Why he allowed others to go on, and not me, is because back then, the books that i had been wanting to publish, were still locked up on the inside, now I have over 100 published books on the open market today.