Have your ever felt that you let God down in the way you handled your dating or marriage relationship? How about that deja vu feeling? That you've had the same (bad) experience before, but you can't help repeating what you know doesn't work. Emotions about our relationships are constantly shifting from highs to lows. If we know we are not in the right relationship, we still try to convince ourselves or our partner otherwise. Sometimes that convincing leads us away from God, Christian friends, family, and the church. Does this describe you? And if it does, do you ever wonder if all your rationalizations and poor choices have exceeded the limits of God's patience with you-so that you are almost out of grace? If so, I've written this book for you.