Ambivalence in Mentorship: An Exploration of Emotional Complexities
Autor Bonnie D Oglenskyen Limba Engleză Paperback – 15 mai 2018
Framing the psychodynamics of mentorship dialectically, the book unpacks the relational struggles in mentorship to trace how these emerge from strong emotional bonds. This is accomplished by delineating and illustrating three modes of the ambivalent attachment between mentor and protégé: idealization, loyalty, and generativity. Pushing at the boundaries of research on the topic, Ambivalence in Mentorship locates this relationship at the crosshairs of authority and love—highlighting the interplay of intrapsychic, interpersonal, cultural, and historical forces that drive this relationship to be at once vital and risky. Professionals in the social sciences, business, and management fields will find that the book offers a fresh perspective and authentic voice to the very real joys and complicated feelings that attend mentorship.
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Specificații
ISBN-13: 9781782204183
ISBN-10: 1782204180
Pagini: 188
Dimensiuni: 152 x 229 x 19 mm
Greutate: 0.27 kg
Ediția:1
Editura: Taylor & Francis
Colecția Routledge
Locul publicării:Oxford, United Kingdom
ISBN-10: 1782204180
Pagini: 188
Dimensiuni: 152 x 229 x 19 mm
Greutate: 0.27 kg
Ediția:1
Editura: Taylor & Francis
Colecția Routledge
Locul publicării:Oxford, United Kingdom
Public țintă
Professional Practice & DevelopmentCuprins
Acknowledgements
About the Author
Preface
Chapter I: Bonds that Bind: Introduction to Ambivalence in Mentorship
Framing ambivalence
Mentorship stories
Outline of the book
Chapter 2: Defining the Elusive: Ambiguous Expectations in Mentorship
Mentoring craze
Imagos
The "M" word
Academic splitting
A working conception
Chapter 3: Walking on Water with Feet of Clay: Idealization in Mentorship
Perfection, omnipotence, magic
The ego ideal
Illusion, enactment, reality
Vulnerability
Defensive reactions
Case vignette: When idealization leads to a give-up response in the protégé
Recap
The fall
Relief
Context matters
Final thoughts
Chapter 4: A Sticky Subject: Loyalty in Mentorship
Parallel process
Asymmetrical reciprocity
Exclusivity by exclusion
Emotion, calculation, duty
Ritualized enactment
Emotion work
Huddling
Case vignette: Loyalty intensifies as mentor and protégé bond in opposition to a third party
Final thoughts
Chapter 5: The Anxieties of Influence: Generativity in Mentorship
Influence
Generative objects
Internalization
Inhibitors
Identification
(Mis)identifications
Case vignettes: Generativity difficulties when a mentor over- or under- identifies with a protégé
Control and agency
Generative enactments
Legitimacy
Legacy
Final thoughts
Chapter 6: For the Future of Mentorship
Crafted or produced
Anchoring
Limits and possibilities
About the Author
Preface
Chapter I: Bonds that Bind: Introduction to Ambivalence in Mentorship
Framing ambivalence
Mentorship stories
Outline of the book
Chapter 2: Defining the Elusive: Ambiguous Expectations in Mentorship
Mentoring craze
Imagos
The "M" word
Academic splitting
A working conception
Chapter 3: Walking on Water with Feet of Clay: Idealization in Mentorship
Perfection, omnipotence, magic
The ego ideal
Illusion, enactment, reality
Vulnerability
Defensive reactions
Case vignette: When idealization leads to a give-up response in the protégé
Recap
The fall
Relief
Context matters
Final thoughts
Chapter 4: A Sticky Subject: Loyalty in Mentorship
Parallel process
Asymmetrical reciprocity
Exclusivity by exclusion
Emotion, calculation, duty
Ritualized enactment
Emotion work
Huddling
Case vignette: Loyalty intensifies as mentor and protégé bond in opposition to a third party
Final thoughts
Chapter 5: The Anxieties of Influence: Generativity in Mentorship
Influence
Generative objects
Internalization
Inhibitors
Identification
(Mis)identifications
Case vignettes: Generativity difficulties when a mentor over- or under- identifies with a protégé
Control and agency
Generative enactments
Legitimacy
Legacy
Final thoughts
Chapter 6: For the Future of Mentorship
Crafted or produced
Anchoring
Limits and possibilities
Recenzii
"This is destined to become the reference book on mentoring. It offers a deep understanding of the experiences of mentors and their protégés, and an equally deep understanding of emotional ambivalence at work. Oglensky’s study interweaves insights from politics, symbolism and emotions to account for the unique kaleidoscope of interpersonal relations present in today’s workplaces." -- Yiannis Gabriel, Professor of Organizational Theory, University of Bath, UK
"We all know that mentors change the lives of the people they mentor. What we may not always know is that these protégés return the favor. Given the complexity of these relationships, anyone who wants to better understand this intricate interface would be wise to read Bonnie Oglensky’s Ambivalence in Mentorship. Unlike many other contributions within this domain, this book gives the reader a real in-depth understanding of what’s taking place under the surface." -- Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries, Distinguished Clinical Professor of Leadership Development and Organizational Change, INSEAD, France, Singapore and Abu Dhabi
"What’s the power dynamic between the mentor and the mentored? Who depends upon whom? At one point does mentoring end and projection begin? Twenty-five years ago, I was mentored by a powerful, imposing, but ultimately loving teacher. Looking back, I see that he didn’t know everything, he wasn’t always right, although I believed he was. Bonnie Oglensky is wise to ask us to acknowledge the complexity of mentorship. No doubt many who have been mentors or mentored will benefit from her insights." -- Tom Grimes, author of Mentor: A Memoir, 2011 PEN USA finalist for Best Work of Nonfiction
"We all know that mentors change the lives of the people they mentor. What we may not always know is that these protégés return the favor. Given the complexity of these relationships, anyone who wants to better understand this intricate interface would be wise to read Bonnie Oglensky’s Ambivalence in Mentorship. Unlike many other contributions within this domain, this book gives the reader a real in-depth understanding of what’s taking place under the surface." -- Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries, Distinguished Clinical Professor of Leadership Development and Organizational Change, INSEAD, France, Singapore and Abu Dhabi
"What’s the power dynamic between the mentor and the mentored? Who depends upon whom? At one point does mentoring end and projection begin? Twenty-five years ago, I was mentored by a powerful, imposing, but ultimately loving teacher. Looking back, I see that he didn’t know everything, he wasn’t always right, although I believed he was. Bonnie Oglensky is wise to ask us to acknowledge the complexity of mentorship. No doubt many who have been mentors or mentored will benefit from her insights." -- Tom Grimes, author of Mentor: A Memoir, 2011 PEN USA finalist for Best Work of Nonfiction
Descriere
Ambivalence in Mentorship is based on research of scores of mentors and protégés in longstanding relationships representing a range of career fields. Using vivid case narratives, the book takes a nuanced look at the emotional complexities of their mentorships.