Over 80 million people read the smash-hit Fifty Shades of Grey (Arrow, 2012) - leading to a flood of people interested in adding some spice to the bedroom. But enacting these fantasies in a sensible way is not always so easy when the only instruction comes from a fiction book. As Kinky As You Wanna Be is not an instruction book. It won't teach readers how to build a crop or tie ropes around their squirming lover. What it will teach them is something else entirely: how to be a kinky person who has safe, sane, and smart BDSM experiences.