Being in tune with your inner woman is something that is important. Unfortunately this may not come until later in life. So we go through things in trial and error causing a great amount of pain and suffering to ourselves. Many times when the storm is over and we attempt to collect the debris of our lives, we have nothing left. So we find ourselves starting over with bags of hurt, sadness, regrets, confusion, disbelief, skepticism, and the greatest of them all, trust issues. We have packaged all this and attached it to our lives as we go on raising children, working on our jobs, active members in the church and community, and performing on a level to that man in our lives that either survived the storm with us or that man that comes along after the storm and accepts the bags. At what point, do we take care of ourselves? Is that even part of the equation? When are we going to open these packages and free this load?