No one marries with the intent of getting a divorce; yet, preparation for marriage is often inadequate. In this guide for building and maintaining a successful marriage, Dr. Kirby will help put your mind at ease as you prepare for life's most important journey. You will become more aware of what you need to know about marriage before and after you say "I do." You will learn how to select a lifetime partner, what is required to sustain a successful marriage, and how to be a good soul mate, friend, and partner in marriage. Dr. Kirby guides you through the four pillars of building a good marriage: commitment, expectations, communication, and attitude. In addition, you will learn techniques to help manage conflict. The exercises provided in this book will enable you to examine yourself and take responsibility for creating the future you truly desire.