We've all been there; what seemed like the perfect man or woman at the time has left our heart in pieces. The weeks following a breakup are usually consumed by unbearable grief, hours in bed and multiple cartons of Ben and Jerry's. Rather than keep up this vicious cycle following the demise of one's relationship, Cardon offers various ways to break the cycle and move on in "Breakups Blow " In a humorous, honest and heartfelt manner, Cardon uses her personal experiences and heartbreaks to help readers move through their own breakup wounds. The author feels that she has done the legwork on what eases the pain of a broken heart, and she has included it in "Breakups Blow " to help her fellow woman. After reviewing a journal she had kept over the years, Cardon began to notice a pattern to her relationships. "My patterns were astounding, and with each mind-numbing breakup, I learned through trial and error what works for moving forward and what keeps you stuck," Cardon says. "I wish I had a book like 'Breakups Blow ' when I was going through my breakups."