It is through lived experience of a twenty year challenging and turbulent relationship to one man, and being devastated at its completion, she recognised the inner strength and calmness within herself that had enabled her to survive and then go on to find herself and true happiness again. Inspired by the belief in helping others and always being driven to leave the world a better place, she has written this memoir of her lived experience interspersed with motivational quotes aiming to provide all women with a tool kit of self-belief and harnessing their inner strength to not only survive but to also bloom. This book is for anyone that may feel alone and an encouragement to speak out and seek help.