The idea of replacing a Holy, Remarkable, Sovereign God with a man may seem far-fetched, but the reality is that as single women, we do it all the time. The innocent desire of becoming married can easily snowball into full out idolatry. Single women have it tough. Society has tried to place their views on how we should look and who or what we should aspire to be. But where does the Lord fit in? What does the Lord say about our lives? What is His will for us? Being a single woman does not mean that you are broken, cursed or forgotten just because you have yet to walk down the aisle. If you have struggled most of your life with love and relationships, or if you're trying to figure out why the Lord has yet to send "the one," then this book is for you. Contrary to popular belief, a man is not the answer to singleness and being alone. Once you read this book you will realize that the Lord God has so much in store for you once you truly surrender your all to Him You will read about the struggles of another single woman who chose a man before God for years, and some of the harsh realities and consequences she had to face in doing so. Not only will you learn from the mistakes that are written about in this book, hopefully each and everyday for the rest of your days you choose God, you choose to live a life of purpose and obedience, and you choose to finally let go of the shame, heartache, and false hope of choosing a man before God.