In this thought-provoking, informative, and candid book, single, college-educated, African American women were interviewed and revealed whether they believed that their postsecondary education decreased or weakened their chances for attracting "suitable" African American men in order to build fulfilling, romantic relationships which lead to marriage The participants interviewed for this book had previously earned a bachelor, graduate, doctorate, or law degree and ranged in age from their early 20s to their mid 50s Shocking and transparent, this inspirational book also explored how colorism, the down-low, and the history of African-American romantic relationships also affected romantic partnerships between African-American women and African-American men