Dear lovers of the universe, Do you know how to turn your mate on? Seriously, ask yourself that question. And please don't reply with a yes, but haven't had sex with your significant other since early 2013. In my humble opinion, to keep your romance afloat, you should not go longer than 3 to 4 weeks without having sex. And yes, 3-4 weeks is the maximum time allowed So how in the world can you keep your sex life that active, especially when you both are past the honeymoon phase of the relationship? Two words: Dirty talk. In case you were born in the Stone Age, dirty talk is when you say seductive words or phrases to your lover in order to induce sexual arousal. When utilized correctly, these words or phrases produce a sensation mentally that will lead your lover to want to give you physical stimulation.