This guide is in plain English for men at the beginning of their separation and divorce. Ben is an Australian who has been through it himself. In this book he discusses candidly, the challenges and pitfalls. He has practical tips and methods from a man's point of view to pro-actively deal with your emotions, children, lawyers, settlement and divorce. You will be able to access templates to assist with managing your kids, property value and settlement, Legal Visit planning, goal setting and parenting plans. By starting this journey on the right footing, you can maintain relationships with your children, communicate with your ex, reduce your need for legal advice and mediators and most importantly, reduce the emotional pain that you and your children will need to endure. Identify when you need to see a lawyer, what your children really need from you (and their mother), establish your goals and how you will achieve them. Simple, practical and real, no matter where you live, you will get something from this Book.