This book is written from a male's perspective. It was written with the intent of being a "guy to guy" book; but as it has turned out, many folks are suggesting it is not actually a book on DIVORCED DADS' PARENTING but rather a BOOK ON PARENTING. This book is for the "innocents" of the divorce - the children. If you, as an adult, get something out of it, then it is all the better. If one kid somewhere turns out to live a more peaceful life 'cause one or both of his parents read this book, then it was worth all the time I put into writing it. We need to help each other to raise great kids. It is pretty easy at a conceptual level to be the world's greatest dad. Simply BE the kind of man you would want your daughter to marry and your son to become. Easy conceptually, but in execution, it is harder than hell If you have children, read on as I can promise some WISDOM borne of my trials and tribulations as a divorced dad.