Do It My way - The New Sexually Assertive Woman describes the emergence of a new type of woman who is comfortable sexually asserting herself to her partner. Such a woman directs her partner in how to satisfy her sexually. Its message to women who are not finding satisfaction in sex is that they must teach their partner on how to give them good sex. They do this by explicitly telling their partner what to do, when to do it, and how to do it so that they experience sexual satisfaction. Such women know that their partner loves it when they take such an active role in sex and that sex is better for both of them. The new sexually assertive woman frees herself from the bondage of the good girl stereotype that only bad girls take an active role in sex.