The journey to loving people more than concepts requires faith and hope. The connections between these three virtues are not immediately obvious, but to those on the journey these virtues are the spiritual rubber that meets the road of life that helps us grow in stability and peace; with flexibility, humility, and caring we will love people genuinely. Coming from my own experience and using First Corinthians 13 as my spring board, I explore what love looks like and what it isn't. The hope, and faith chapters are shorter in length and explore what that I struggled with and came to grips with in my Dark Night.