Why This Book Was Written: oThere is just too much chaos surrounding the typical wedding today oI've witnessed Brides who could not decide on a gown until everything else was done and then felt cornered by their other choices oI've watched brides suffer who have no vision, no voice, and get bullied into choices they never wanted oBrides need to know how to make everything look as great as possible on any budget oThe zillas who feel they have to get all nasty to get what they want need a better way to communication oBrides who don't understand all the things that have to be in done - and in what order - to bring a successful event to life oBecause I have simply endured too many cheesy check-list weddings Be Assertive Be Proactive Most of these problems can be resolved by bolstering your communication skills and helping you have a clear vision of what you would like for your big day