Most fetishists have healthy, happy sex lives with their lovers in the style that their lovers prefer. And most fetishists must partition off their fetishes from their relationships. This can be isolating - but no-one needs to feel lonely in a relationship or feel confused about getting their needs met. A superbly frank guide that shows readers how to understand - and make the most of - their or their lovers' fetish - and teaches them that normal sex is exactly the kind of sex they enjoy.