I qualified to write this book because it is my personal life story, I lived through each physical sickness and emotion that an individual can possibly endure, a death sentence on my life being diagnosis with a life threaten disease of Lupus and my father's death of colon cancer plus also the death of a brother in a car accident and the passing of my mother. Yes this qualified me to write the struggles that I had just trying to survive. Also my dear mother suffering from complications of diabetes and blinding glaucoma with living 3000 miles away from home it was always on my mind if she was in the hospital or perhaps dying and me not being able to get to her to help.