I have always wondered if all the other women see relationships and sex the way I do. In fact, I know they do! When I talk to my friends and other fellow women, I could swear we are on the same page! We agree on a lot of things: feelings, stereotypes, misconceptions, and so on. What puzzles me is how they still carry on, as if we did not agree that certain things are wrong or unacceptable. Certain treatment should not be tolerated. Certain ways of thinking should be changed. I feel betrayed, to say the least. I am an action person; I do things. I get things done. When I discuss topics like these with people, I say only what I mean. The result I am heading toward is one where each one of us takes it upon themselves to do or say something toward positive change because they have gotten a second opinion from our discussion, or they got what it is they needed to push them to act or simply act because of the herding instinct. The question I always ask is, who do these women think is going to solve their problems for them if they do not do it themselves? They probably expect that one of these fine days a knight in shining armor of women problems is going to fall from the sky and say, "I know all your problems, and I have come to slice them one by one." I do not want you to wonder what I am about to go on and on about, so let me put this thing into perspective right here.