My thoughts process for writing "Hand in the Hand Of" is my dedication, motivation, inspiration and spiritual view points on life lessons learned. It's the part of me that during my transition and observation of others transition I noticed the different stages of emotions that we encounter during our journey. The emotions are real but often ignored because we are not taught how to deal or face the fears that we come in contact with on a daily basis. We often allow fear to take over our being and control our life to the point of no return and we are held captivate, confused within our thoughts and allow the devil to have our freedom. Fear keeps us in bondage, a bondage that sometimes becomes our norm, a norm that becomes reality, a reality that becomes fear and fear that leads us down the same path that we dread; we dread it because it is unknown to us and what we don't know we often time fear. We dread our daily living because of past situation, past regrets, past mistakes, past relationships and not accepting and owing up to the responsibility of the person who we are, always looking to blame others because we do not have the drive, believe and trust in God to carry out His promise to His people. We deny ourselves happiness because we don't understand what it means to be happy, to be free, and unlock the chains that have been placed in our life. The chain is not easy to break, it's a process to healing, discovering who you were meant to be, your life purpose and all the enjoyable little small perks that God has instilled within us. He trust us with the gift He has given each of us to use for the good of others and know that the gift that we have is not for own purpose. To know that our gift is to be used to uplift others that may have or have not travel a similar road such as us. Giving back is the greatest gift that one can achieve to encourage others. I am being used for my strengths; so that I may capitalize on my weakness