How Do You Know When You Know? offers a solution focused approach to decision making. The focus is on how we know, the process of deciding. Solution focused methods and attitudes tap strengths and wisdom you already have. They help you discover and build on what works for you. How Do You Know When You Know? introduces ways of recognizing what you truly want, what matters most. It describes how decisions evolve and "ripen." There are strategies for combining intuition and reason and for including indecision and caution in decision making. Special features include: - Stories about "moments of knowing" - Examples involving relationships, career, health, moving, friendship, pets, athletics, and more - Excerpts from memoirs and cinema - Ideas from behavioral economics, philosophy, and psychology - Perspectives on decisions in everyday life With its practical guidelines for tough choices, How Do You Know When You Know? is a book to read now-and to consult again whenever you face a new decision.