This book deals with how to choose a mate, learn from mistakes, stay married, and teach others to beak the cycle of dysfunctional relationships. The present dating/mating/marriage system is not a spouse trap; it is a dating/mating game. Part of the difficulty with failed marriages is that the participants soon feel trapped. When the dating game is over and they are tired of the old party time, they want out. They start looking elsewhere for sensual excitement, but there are children and financial obligations that are not easy to evade. The more trapped they feel the worse the relationship becomes. One more marriage relationship has been sundered. There must be a better way!