But Mummy, Grandma Daisy did just die, she came to see me. When people told Valerie they were dead she believed them why did no one else believe when she had told them so in her strongest voice? It seemed strange to her when as a child adults just assumed that she had imaginary friends galore because Valerie knew that they were real. Many years later the realisation hit home that she had been blessed with a lovely gift and was able to enjoy communication with spirits and could indeed see dead people. Over the years she has been able to give validation to those suffering bereavement that their dear departed loved ones have not gone but have merely changed address.