If You Must Get Married is a practical guide on the subject of courtship and long term relationship such as marriage. It Guides it readers through some practical and none compromised steps they should take if they must get married and stay married. It highlight some of the issues facing the the present day spinsters and bachelors, and offers sound biblical guide on how to approach these issues. It's a letter of investment from it author to; singles who wish to be married some day, married couples struggling to strike the proper and biblical balance within their marriage, and a must read for anyone in courtship. As one of those who reviewed the manuscript rightfully said, " after the BIble, "If you must get married" is one book every couple, single individual should read when looking for materials on the subject of relationship and marriage. What those who have read the book are saying!If I could have written anything about marriage, this would have been the title "If you must get married."In this book you will understand why many marriages fail and how marriage, when seen as a ministry, can change the view of husbands and wives and make them understand their roles in their homes/families. C A Ogbe - South Africa As I read through this book "IF YOU MUST GET MARRIED", I saw a vivid picture of some things God had imprinted in my heart when I was a single lady. There was a replay of my past and I couldn't stop smiling. I really appreciate God for raising a young general in the area relationship, in the person of Pastor Tony Egbejule. You hold in your hand a book that will change and transform your mind from the culture you have been holding unto for a long time as a bachelor or spinster. Aside the bible which is God's mind concerning everything under the sun or that gives answer to every question life throws at us, including the issue of marriage, " IF YOU MUST GET MARRIED" is a must read to guide you into this life-long commitment and ministry called marriage. Mrs Vera Femi -Nigeria Convincingly lead by the Holy Spirit, the author unleashes facts and truths......on "If You Must Get Married"He touches on the very real issues that our young adults face during their courtship and also in taking their decisions to get married; the importance on choosing a partner when in Christ how it becomes easier- than when in the world.He points out how two Christian people do not necessarily make a Christian marriage. With the flow of the Holy Spirit and his eye on the word, he gives sound spiritual advice on this walk; "If You Must Get Married"... an evident eye-opener.Celeste Rayners - South Africa Thanks to "If You Must Get Married," I received confirmation of my calling and purpose here on earth.Thanks to "If You Must Get Married ", I now have a better understanding of what it's to get married, why I should get married and how I should live my life when married.Thanks to "If You Must Get Married," the statement "It is not good for the man to be alone" its now crystal clear to me. Indeed, the Spirit has granted his servant the grace to unveil a number of truths relating to marriage, which have been neglected over the years, and thus reinvigorating this institution. It is through this book that I was able, after so long, to see clearly how God designed marriage to help men and women fulfill their respective missions. Djo Kibari - Cameroon