After decades of preying on women as a pimp and a hustler, larger-than-life celebrity bodyguard Big Boom was an expert in the games men play with women. But after meeting his wife, he turned in his player card and committed his life to teaching women how they can guard their hearts against the type of man he used to be. In this controversial guide, winnner of the 2008 Diagram Prize, Big Boom gives no-holds barred, straight-talking advice, all the while revealing the true motivations behind the actions of men on the prowl.