This narrative is about my two individual cousins in the same family tree who found it necessary to make the climb out. It is also about me, Stephen, who learned how to find freedom from both my cousin's stories. These cousins shared their experiences with me and I feel compelled to share them with you so you know that you're not alone in your family dynamics. I am alive!! I feel as though I am finally free to be me. Born to be.... I'm amazed by how much creative and productive energy is available when you are freed from reactions to anger and fear.