I never expected to see my spouse in the psych ward after his efforts to commit me over the years. But there he was; and he was angry with me, again. My name is Dayle Kane, and I haven't had much luck with men in my life. My first husband believed that a good time was coupling me with his friends and colleagues, blaming me for his perpetual adultery and compulsive lying, and of course stripping me of all self-respect. It was as fun as it sounds. My second relationship wasn't much better. But I lived through these hard times while trying to raise a son with special needs, a daughter with unknown health issues, and portraying the ideal middle class family image, yet came out wiser at the end. Wiser about people, about motivations and explorations - and about staying true to the person that matters most: yourself. There are too many mind games in the world. Like racquetball we play with each other, volleying abuse back and forth at the expense of others. This is a memoir about lies, deceit and abuse - the kind that lets you know it's okay. The kind that shows you how easy it is to lose yourself in someone else's life. You do not have to keep up those appearances any more. Join me through the most critical moments of my life and learn how to stand up and say no to the games that people play with eachother. No more games. Just the truth, because the secrets will kill you. Read 'Keeping Up With Appearances' today, and learn a lifetime of lessons now "