Living an Orgasmic Life

Challenges with sexuality are all too common in our society and not frequently discussed in an open and thoughtful manner. According to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 20% of married couples are only having sex once a month, considered a sexless marriage. Those numbers are likely significantly under reported and do not account for the large number of women and men who stay in their marriage for other reasons (e.g. money, children) but have completely unsatisfying sex lives. The number of reported sexless marriages has quadrupled in the last 20 years.

In Living An Orgasmic Life, Xanet Pailet explores the many reasons that cause women to disconnect from their sexuality including: shame, body image issues, sexual abuse and trauma, physical wounding, and fears of intimacy. She teaches practical advice and tools to help women awaken to their sexuality in a healthy way and reclaim their libido. Filled with lessons and practical exercises that can take your sex life from non-existent or mediocre to fulfilling on every level, it is a must read if you desire better connection with your partner, juicier sex and more passion in your love life. Every chapter contains practical exercises and tools to help the reader better understand and heal their own struggles with sex and intimacy and to reclaim their pleasure.

This book is written for anyone who finds sex challenging, or feels uncomfortable with sexuality. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find healing balm in these pages. Women who can't surrender into pleasure, can't sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book. While not addressed to men specifically, this book will also resonate with men who are themselves struggling with sexual issues, or whose partner is experiencing sexual challenges. Chapters offer practical and helpful advice on how to overcome challenges covering a comprehensive range of topics inclusive of women, men and couples.

As author Xanet Pailet notes, "I wrote this book because I am passionate about helping individuals who feel broken reclaim their sexuality and their pleasure, and transform their lives. I want women who are struggling with sex to understand that help is available and that they can have healthy, passionate sex lives. I wrote this book for the 20 year old who was date raped, the 30 year old mom who was traumatized during childbirth, the 40 year old divorced women who has never experienced an orgasm, the 50 year old who is struggling with menopause and low libido, and the 60 plus year old women who is ready to explore her sexuality and experience orgasmic bliss."

What You'll Learn Inside This Book:

• The many factors that cause women to shut down their sexuality
• Why it's so hard to talk about sex in a world where everything is about sex
• The #1 reason women lose their desire for sex and what to do about it
• How sexual trauma can occur and how to heal it
• Your sexual blueprint: what it is and how to read it
• How attachment theory relates to your intimate life
• What the journey to sexual healing looks like
• How to find your path to pleasure
• Awakening your body through somatic and hands-on healing
• How to reignite your libido
• The truth about your pleasure potential
• What you can do to start living an orgasmic life