This book identifies unhealthy behaviour in relationships and shows techniques to help heal it. A wide range of relationship issues are covered including looking for signs of affairs and how to heal them, emotional trauma and addiction, issues with parents, sexual abuse and how it affects people, anger management and psychological and physical violence., possessiveness, depression, jealousy, sexual problems and sexual guilt. It also talks about the importance of being vulnerable to connect with your partner. This book talks about many of loves pitfalls in a humorous way, often citing the authors own life experiences. It also contains advice on astrology and astrological traps' Headings include titles such as 'I'm Going Out With An Idiot', 'The Battle of the Fantasys', 'Men and their Bag Of Tricks' and 'Dress To Attract The Right Guy' The main theme of this book is recognising and understanding unhealthy behaviour and techniques to heal these behaviour patterns as well as improving communication to create a more loving relationship