We are born with the natural ability to attract a mate. But we have to learn the art of attracting a boyfriend. Males, including human males, are generally ready to mate at any and every opportunity. But mating to a male is just that. It is a physical act that feels good and is a natural bodily function. To the male, the act itself is the entirety of the mission. So, he is quite surprised when the act is completed and the female is still around. In our evolved state, he will normally find a way to "excuse" himself from the situation. Basically, he has two options. He can state, "that's all there is." Or he can run. He will run. Before we learn how to make a man "want" to be our boyfriend, we must define the term "boyfriend." A boyfriend is a "male companion that you have a deep relationship that sometimes includes a sexual nature." But let's explain what a boyfriend is not. He is not just a mating partner. If the entirety of the relationship is mating, that is what it is. He is not your boyfriend. He is just your sex buddy. (This is the big one). A boyfriend is NOT your husband. A husband has a legal and moral obligation to care for you. He is required by society to hold you up when you can't stand. He promises to remain with you through whatever life throws your way. He is your protector, partner, friend and lover (and you are his). Being a husband is hard work. It takes dedication, commitment, and much effort. When a man moves from boyfriend status to husband status, he is in essence saying, he will put your needs before his own and build a life with you. It is not easy, which is why it comes with a legally binding license of marriage, which has no expiration date. If you want a man to beg to be your boyfriend, you must want a boyfriend. You must be honest with yourself. You want more than a sex buddy, but less than a husband. You want the closeness of a relationship, but understand it stops short of becoming a lifelong commitment. You want him to want to be with you and care for you, but you understand that you are required to care for yourself and be responsible for your own well-being. In essence being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is digging deep into each other to determine if this is something you want to take to the next level. But keep those boundaries clear. Neither of you has the right to expect the benefits of "spouse." And, both of you have the right (and responsibility) to walk away if it is not the right balance. Okay so now we know what a boyfriend is and what it is not, and hopefully you still want one. So, how do we prepare ourselves to attract one? This book will show you how, so let's get started