UNDERSTANDING A MAN'S DEFINITION OF THE PHRASE, 'I LOVE YOU' CAN NOT ONLY SAVE YOU TIME AND MONEY. IT ALSO CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE. "It can happen in our time that we wage war against abusive treatment of women and we win. It begins with you and me," says Dr. Marcus S. Benson. In his book, Man Is Not Worth Dying For, Dr. Benson offers advice and encouragement to: -Women who are dating, to help them avoid unhealthy relationships. -Women who find themselves married to abusive men, to help them survive, escape, and recover. -Friends and family of victims, on how best to help. -Parents raising boys, to prevent them from becoming violent men. -People in good relationships, to keep those relationships strong and healthy. He encourages any woman still looking for her prince to not be so blinded by love that she overlooks red flags while dating. You can be the happiest person on earth or the most miserable, depending on whether you choose your partner wisely, he contends. To help in that process of weeding out the frogs, Dr. Benson offers clues to spot a misogynist and describes the types of men who are not good marriage material. Dr. Benson discusses why women stay in abusive relationships and offers advice on the way forward.