Finding love later in life brings with it a different view of the world and the promises of the future held in it. Marriage later in life can have different challenges that come hand in hand with changes that may already be happening in careers that are ending soon. Perhaps full retirement is already a part of your days now with old demanding jobs replaced with fulfilling volunteer activities on your schedule. Maybe you mourned the loss of a spouse or partner after an illness for a time. Maybe you are now in a different place in life after a divorce long ago left you with children to raise who are now grown. You are free to put yourself first for a change and find love. You seek out different things in a mate and your perspectives and expectations have changed too. Most importantly, you are willing to try again with this person because of who they are to you and your age is no reason to hold you back. These short thought-provoking questions were created to help you as a couple talk through the issues that if left unchecked could over time erode the happiness out of your long awaited relationship. Each question has space for each of you to write your thoughts if you choose to. Some questions may sound silly to you in your life experience context. Some may make you laugh. Some answers given by your partner could upset you. Other answers could result in the assurance you are both in total agreement on the topic. Ask Listening is the key. Do not get distracted formulating your response while the other person is still talking. You cannot listen and formulate a response at the same time.