Everybody can have a Marriage God's way. Those willing to have a marriage God's way must be willing to incorporate the word of God (Jesus) into their marriage. Having Christ at the center of your life will cause Him to be at the center of your marriage. As you apply the word of God into your life properly your marriage will reap the benefits of it. As you study the word of God and learn to love unconditionally according to the scriptures it will leave no room for selfishness which devours many marriages today. Ephesians 5:25 says husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church, and gave himself up for it. This scripture lets us know that in order to have a marriage Gods way you cannot be selfish, you must think of yourself less.