The majority of my clients in the salon were women, of course, so there have been countless numbers of conversations on the topic of why are men passing up good women. I don't think it really matters what ethnicity a woman is because when she is looking and feeling good about herself and her sexuality you can't tell her anything She may have gone out of her way to color those roots, pluck those eyebrows, shave areas the sun don't shine or other things to get ready to attract a man. Whether the encounter is a mall, coffee shop, grocery store or nightclub, it is always a little nerve-racking. She goes through 100 self-checks in her mind but then realizes that she is fine and he will notice. Is my stomach sticking out; hope my eye makeup isn't smudged; is there food in my teeth; are the girls at attention? So you can imagine she is a little perturbed when a man she finds attractive passes her by without as much as a "hi, bitch, hi." It's almost as if he didn't notice her or if he did, he just wasn't interested. I have to address this issue because for the men reading this book you are probably thinking 'welcome to our world heifers ' You would be absolutely right. You have been getting rejected from the time you were 10 in fifth grade and Mary, the cutie with the bubble booty and braces, smiled past you. You thought she was looking at you in the lunchroom and you got up the nerve to walk over to the table with her and all her friends (big mistake). You said "hello" only to get laughed at by all of them because Mary was actually looking at Todd at the table behind you. This started your journey of learning to deal with rejection, after rejection, after rejection. "No" after "No" after "No " I don't think people realize the true definition of success. It's doing something over and over again until you perfect it enough that you win because you never quit. Men, I have to congratulate you on your diligence and perseverance in dealing