This book is a record of Eleanor Aiken's (Wicker, Thompson, Aiken) life as she lived it, detailing her hardships and successes. Her writing of this book of memories wasn't written to please anyone, just an effort to record her ups, downs, as she went through her life doing things, as she says -Her Way It is a part of the Wicker Family History; it was written by Eleanor to be shared with her children and everyone who interacted with her during her life. In truth, this book will not please everyone nor an attempt to white wash actions taken, it was primarily written to explain to everyone as to who and what she was, it does cover 80 years of living. If you chose to read this book take it for what it is one person's view on their life, which can be appreciated by everyone who are currently on their road of living.