My Buddy and Me Come on adventure with: My Buddy and Me, to help Normalise Grief and Loss and Learn Resilience for children. The book explains what a loss can be for a child, shows children what they can do for themselves and others to help build resilience. The book empowers children to make choices for themselves and shows them how to take back some power after a loss. About Author Jane Oakley-Lohm authors books for children through nature, fun, adventure and imagination. Jane Oakley-Lohm is an Australian writer who has passion for nature and animals and believes there is a lot we can learn from these two areas. She is known for her work in counselling and training for Psychological abuse/bullying, grief and loss and is now providing this knowledge through books for children. Jane teaches resilience through a "Tree".