Hello, I'm Hamiye Öksüz. The reason behind this book is to share my regular thoughts and questions that I asked myself. And the misbeliefs of the society that inflict deep wounds... I would like express my feelings on these subjects. I do believe that, lie cannot benefit anyone at any cost. It's a word that lets people fall into abyss, and makes minds intoxicated... Sometimes us, the people, cannot get what we want. We cannot always know what are the things that life had spared for us. Fighting a battle between what you want and the reality, fighting hard, but being the loser in the end, and finding yourself in a life that you have no desire... And sometimes there are some steps to take, some difficult steps, difficult to turn back, and some other steps that you are not ready to take in a young age! Steps that hinder your own childhood and youthfulness... In this life, there are some sets of events for each of us; being poor, losing your mother or your father, or falling ill... Each one of us might be a part of a fight in this life, because death is just the end of the time that was granted us by the hand of God. And diseases, are just some tests, that has been given to us from God. He tests our patience to remind us what is the true meaning of being healthy. He helps people to shake things off and start over. Here are the notable events of your destiny: Coming into the world; you cannot choose your own family. You cannot stop death! Birth, and death are the destiny itself. But the things happening between birth and death, are they destiny or cost?