My Father's Wake: How the Irish Teach Us to Live, Love, and Die
Autor Kevin Toolisen Limba Engleză CD-Audio – 26 feb 2018
Death is a whisper for most of us. Instinctively we feel we should dim the lights, pull the curtains, and speak softly. But on a remote island off the coast of Ireland's County Mayo, death has a louder voice.
Each day, along with reports of incoming Atlantic storms, the local radio runs a daily roll call of the recently departed. The islanders go in great numbers, young and old alike, to be with their dead. They keep vigil with the corpse and the bereaved company through the long hours of the night. They dig the grave with their own hands and carry the coffin on their own shoulders. The islanders cherish the dead--and amid the sorrow, they celebrate life, too.
InMy Father's Wake, acclaimed author and award-winning filmmaker Kevin Toolis unforgettably describes his own father's wake and explores the wider history and significance of this ancient and eternal Irish ritual. Perhaps we, too, can all find a better way to deal with our mortality--by living and loving as the Irish do.
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ISBN-13: 9781549167744
ISBN-10: 154916774X
Dimensiuni: 145 x 142 x 13 mm
Greutate: 0.14 kg
Editura: DA CAPO PR
ISBN-10: 154916774X
Dimensiuni: 145 x 142 x 13 mm
Greutate: 0.14 kg
Editura: DA CAPO PR
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An intimate, lyrical memoir exploring the ancient rite of the Irish wake, and the Irish way of overcoming our fear of death - BEING MORTAL meets THE LAST ACT OF LOVE
An intimate, lyrical memoir exploring the ancient rite of the Irish wake, and the Irish way of overcoming our fear of death - BEING MORTAL meets THE LAST ACT OF LOVE
Notă biografică
Kevin
Toolisis
a
writer
and
BAFTA-winning
filmmaker.
The
author
of
a
celebrated
chronicle
of
Ireland's
Troubles,Rebel
Hearts:
Journeys
within
the
IRA's
Soul,
he
has
written
for
theNew
York
Times
MagazineandThe
Guardianand
reported
on
conflicts
around
the
world.
His
family
has
lived
in
the
same
village
on
an
island
off
the
coast
of
County
Mayo
for
the
last
two
hundred
years.
Toolis
makes
his
home
on
the
island
and
in
London.
Recenzii
"The
windswept
Irish
island
ofMyFather's
Wakeis
one
of
the
final
remote
outposts
of
true
death
engagementin
the
Western
world.
Toolis's
book
is
both
memoir
and
anthropology,
and
servesas
a
refreshing
counterpoint
to
the
industrialized,
for-profit
death
industrywe've
come
to
wrongly
believe
is
our
only
option."--Caitlin
Doughty,
author
oftheNew
York
TimesbestsellersSmoke
Gets
in
Your
EyesandFrom
Here
to
Eternity
"As a boy, he learned to kiss the corpse at a traditional island wake. As a filmmaker and witness to death in many conflict zones around the world, Kevin Toolis has written a profound book on the culture of grief and death, placing the personal alongside the political in a vivid exploration of our ancient ways of coming together around the dead. This is a moving family story, a memoir of loss and exile, a deep understanding of what makes us alive, casting a cold eye on what is precious and so often denied."--Hugo Hamilton
"The 'Western Death Machine' has hidden the dead and dying, but in a remote island off the west coast of Ireland, an almost Homeric society clings to the old ways. The dying are treasured and tenderly watched over, the dead are honored with the ancient rites and rituals. Contemporary western ideas about death are dominated by individualism;My Father's Wakeis a lyrical description of how community and tradition help us deal with our mortality."--Seamus O'Mahony, author ofThe Way We Die Now
"A heartwarming and very personal account of a life well-lived."--Irish Times
"A long meditation on death, dying, and our attitudes to mortality--our own and others'.... Toolis posits an acceptance of the inevitable which, while it does not banish the pain of grief, invests it with a resignation and a grace that is, in essence, healing and somehow life-affirming."--The Guardian
"A gut-wrenching exploration of death from an Irish perspective...A fascinating view of what most of us try not to consider: the end of life...This book is not for the faint of heart, as the experiences [Toolis] shares will leave readers emotionally raw. It is unquestionably rewarding, however, a thought-provoking argument against a sterile and industrial view of death...Intimate, eye-opening."—Kirkus (starred review)
"[A] poetically written and heartfelt memoir."
—Irish Voice
"An exceptionally personal and moving story."—BookPage
"In this stimulating and poignant narrative, Kevin Toolis armed with his Irish heritage gives a heart wrenching description of the death and wake of his father as he delves into the broader history, rituals, and meaning of the Irish wake...With an inspiring and refreshing message at its core,My Father's Wakerejoices in the spiritual depth of the Irish views on mortality."—New York Journal of Books
"A book especially for St. Patrick's Day, to be sure, but filled with powerful advice for every day."
—WTBF Radio
A New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice
"Syntax and word, rhythm and rite roll and surge in this tribute to a wordsmith's dying father, Sonny-and to the neglected Irish practice of 'waking the dead'...A worthy read."—Englewood Review of Books
"At once heartwarming and horrifying."—Norfolk Virginian-Pilot
"A former war correspondent, Toolis has seen more than his fair share of death and is here to shake us out of our complacency."—Times Literary Supplement
"[Toolis] blends the realities of his real-world journalistic experiences of war, famine, natural disaster and death with an elegant overlay of the humanities and culture...His depiction of the ancient ritual of the wake and other customs is not sentimental, but an unflinching description of death, grief, and mourning...His description of the collective experience of his father's death, wake and funeral are poetic and unforgettable...My Father's Wake is a beautifully written work which deserves our attention. There are portions of this book which should be required reading for medical and nursing students."—Pallimed
"A powerful exploration of mortality, loss, and Western death denial."—Talk Death
"As a boy, he learned to kiss the corpse at a traditional island wake. As a filmmaker and witness to death in many conflict zones around the world, Kevin Toolis has written a profound book on the culture of grief and death, placing the personal alongside the political in a vivid exploration of our ancient ways of coming together around the dead. This is a moving family story, a memoir of loss and exile, a deep understanding of what makes us alive, casting a cold eye on what is precious and so often denied."--Hugo Hamilton
"The 'Western Death Machine' has hidden the dead and dying, but in a remote island off the west coast of Ireland, an almost Homeric society clings to the old ways. The dying are treasured and tenderly watched over, the dead are honored with the ancient rites and rituals. Contemporary western ideas about death are dominated by individualism;My Father's Wakeis a lyrical description of how community and tradition help us deal with our mortality."--Seamus O'Mahony, author ofThe Way We Die Now
"A heartwarming and very personal account of a life well-lived."--Irish Times
"A long meditation on death, dying, and our attitudes to mortality--our own and others'.... Toolis posits an acceptance of the inevitable which, while it does not banish the pain of grief, invests it with a resignation and a grace that is, in essence, healing and somehow life-affirming."--The Guardian
"A gut-wrenching exploration of death from an Irish perspective...A fascinating view of what most of us try not to consider: the end of life...This book is not for the faint of heart, as the experiences [Toolis] shares will leave readers emotionally raw. It is unquestionably rewarding, however, a thought-provoking argument against a sterile and industrial view of death...Intimate, eye-opening."—Kirkus (starred review)
"[A] poetically written and heartfelt memoir."
—Irish Voice
"An exceptionally personal and moving story."—BookPage
"In this stimulating and poignant narrative, Kevin Toolis armed with his Irish heritage gives a heart wrenching description of the death and wake of his father as he delves into the broader history, rituals, and meaning of the Irish wake...With an inspiring and refreshing message at its core,My Father's Wakerejoices in the spiritual depth of the Irish views on mortality."—New York Journal of Books
"A book especially for St. Patrick's Day, to be sure, but filled with powerful advice for every day."
—WTBF Radio
"Visceral
and
profound."
—New
York
Times
Book
Review"Read
Kevin's
book
for
a
peek
into
the
rites
and
rituals
of
an
ancient
past.My
Father's
Waketeaches
us
that
death
does
not
need
to
be
reinvented,
we
don't
need
to
find
new
ways...we
need
to
uncover
and
rediscover
the
old
ways."
—The
Order
of
the
Good
DeathA New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice
"Syntax and word, rhythm and rite roll and surge in this tribute to a wordsmith's dying father, Sonny-and to the neglected Irish practice of 'waking the dead'...A worthy read."—Englewood Review of Books
"At once heartwarming and horrifying."—Norfolk Virginian-Pilot
"A former war correspondent, Toolis has seen more than his fair share of death and is here to shake us out of our complacency."—Times Literary Supplement
"[Toolis] blends the realities of his real-world journalistic experiences of war, famine, natural disaster and death with an elegant overlay of the humanities and culture...His depiction of the ancient ritual of the wake and other customs is not sentimental, but an unflinching description of death, grief, and mourning...His description of the collective experience of his father's death, wake and funeral are poetic and unforgettable...My Father's Wake is a beautifully written work which deserves our attention. There are portions of this book which should be required reading for medical and nursing students."—Pallimed
"A powerful exploration of mortality, loss, and Western death denial."—Talk Death