This memoir gives you a glimpse into what happens behind some peoples closed doors. Have you ever heard the fighting neighbors, seen the strange marks or bruises that people try to conceal, heard about Jane Doe being abused or perhaps even seen Betty Sue's partner hurt her? You know the lies will come to cover up the embarrassing and painful truth that she is trying so hard to hide. My Life in the John will take you behind those closed doors, allowing you to be the proverbial fly on the wall. You will see abuse through the eyes of the abused, and you will read the lies that the abuser uses to keep his actions hidden from the outside world. This book will take you on an emotional roller-coaster as you will experience anger, sadness, resentment, relief, and possibly hatred. The purpose of this memoir is to open peoples eyes to a dark reality that plagues millions of homes and to show victims world wide that they are not alone. Speaking up, standing together, finding the strength to say NO MORE....this will be the only way we see change.